Beginner's Guide to Dildos

If you're looking for a no-frills sexual gratification, a dildo could be the way to go. Dildos are incredibly adaptable sex toys that are suitable for both solo and couple's play. In this guide, we’ll go through what they are, why you’d use one.

What is a Dildo?

A dildo is a sex toy that resembles a phallus and is designed to stimulate your internal erogenous zones, such as the G-spot and the P-spot.

Dildos can be used vaginally, anally, and - if they vibrate - externally, too, depending on which type of dildo you buy.

What does a Dildo look like?

Dildos come in many different sizes, shapes, and colors. You can find some dildos in a variety of bright colors and shapes. And Realistic dildos are modelled on the shape and size of an erect penis. They usually have a bulbous head and some even have realistc balls or protruding veins along the shaft, which can enhance pleasure.

Whether you're using a dildo with a partner or enjoying it solo, there are numerous benefits to incorporating dildos into your bedroom: They are incredibly versatile, and there’s bound to be one that’s perfect for you.

How to Use Didlo for the First Time?

If you've recently bought your first dildo from Honeykissme and are unsure what to do next, don't worry. We understand that using a dildo for the first time can be intimidating for some people, and we're here to guide you through the process.

Start Small

Getting used to using a dildo may take some time, especially if you haven’t dabbled much in penetration. That's why we recommend starting with a smaller size to make insertion easier. Dildos come in a range of sizes, from as small as 4 inches to as large as 18 inches.

It's essential to check the product measurements before making a purchase. If you’re still not sure what you’ll be working with, use your trusty ruler to get a visualisation.

Use Lube 

Lube is a crucial element when using a dildo or any sex toy. It's your best friend as it can make your playtime more comfortable and pleasurable. Applying a generous amount of lubricant can enhance your experience, and give your dildo the necessary glide to move effortlessly over your erogenous zones.

It's best to use a water-based lubricant with dildos. Using a high-quality water-based lubricant can help reduce discomfort and potential injury, making your experience more enjoyable and safer.

Take it Slow

It's important to start slowly and take some time getting used to the sensation of the dildo around your genitals. Give yourself enough time to become comfortable with the toy, and experiment with different movements and positions to find what feels best for you.

If you plan to use the dildo in your vagina, it's a good idea to try external stimulation first. Rubbing the dildo along your labia and gently against your clitoris can help "warm you up" and prepare you for internal G-spot stimulation. This can also help you relax and become more comfortable with the sensations before inserting the dildo. Remember to take your time and listen to your body's cues.

How to masturbate with a Dildo?

  • Whether you're using a dildo alone or engaging in mutual masturbation with your partner, incorporating a dildo into your playtime can make the experience even more thrilling. The beauty of masturbation is that you have complete control over your pleasure, allowing you to explore different techniques and positions as much as you desire. So don't be afraid to experiment and have fun with your dildo!
  • When using a dildo, try thrusting it inside you slowly and gradually increase the speed to see what feels good for you. Experiment with different depths to find what you're in the mood for. If you're up for multitasking, use one hand to penetrate with the dildo and the other hand to stimulate your other erogenous zones.
  • Adding a vibrator to the mix can also intensify your pleasure and make the experience even more enjoyable. Remember, there's no right or wrong way to use a dildo, so just go with what feels good for you.
  • Don't limit yourself to the same positions when using a dildo. Explore different angles and try out various positions to find what feels good for you. Changing things up can lead to deeper penetration or different types of stimulation, which can enhance your pleasure. Remember, there are countless possibilities when it comes to using a dildo, so have fun and get creative!