It is known that good food is the way to a man’s heart, but a good head is the way to a man’s soul.  


A blowjob or head is undoubtedly one of the ways to experience sexual pleasure in a mindblowing way.

By definition, a blowjob is when a person puts their mouth around a man’s penis and bobs their head up and down the penis. Well, there’s more to it though.


In this article, you’re going to learn what a blowjob is, who can get or give one, how to give it, and much more. 

So get your head together and focus as we’re about to learn how to get the job done, and blow your partner to a sexual place they’ve never been before.


Just as the name suggests, a blowjob is indeed a job. Like any other job, you need to understand what the job is, what it entails, and how to perform and deliver in the best way possible.

Blowjobs aren’t just about gripping his penis and bobbing your head away, with hopes that he will cum in a few minutes. There are specific ways and techniques to it. 


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Other Terms for Blowjob


Blowjob is not the only term that refers to the act of sucking dick. Here are some other terms that are synonymous with blowjob:

🍌 head

🍌 give top

🍌 give brain

🍌 give dome

🍌 give neck

🍌 go down on

🍌 cocksucking

🍌 deepthroat

🍌 lip service 

🍌 come down

🍌 bob on the knob

🍌 fellatio 

🍌 oral sex


Alright, now you have a wider vocabulary of blowjob terms, how about we get into the facts and fun on the issue of giving head.


Can Women Get Head?


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The quickest answer is yes. Both men and women can get head. However, the terminology requires some attention though. Head is normally used for sucking dick, more like sucking the head of the penis. 


When it comes down to women (no pun intended), terms like going down on her,  cunnilingus, oral sex, eating pussy, and clit licking can be seen as more appropriate. 


Women can enjoy getting their pussy eaten, or clit licked and sucked. One thing to note is that you can use sex toys to perform the same act when you’re having a solo sexual moment. 


Things To Know Before Giving A Blowjob


1️⃣ Wash your penis before getting head

2️⃣ Rinse or brush your teeth before giving head

3️⃣ Engage foreplay 


Which Parts of the Penis Do You Suck?


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The penis primarily has different sections, and some sections are more sensitive than others. Normally the tip of the penis or the head as some may call it is usually very sensitive, and licking it could be a great start to a wild ride.


If you want your partner to roll his eyes back and lose control, it’s better to gobble up the whole shaft and munch on it like your life depends on it. 

Deepthroating his whole penis shaft could just well be your way to his soul. Here are the best parts to focus on when giving head:


Glans (Penis Head)


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Quick bio lesson: The penis head or glans contain many nerve endings which makes it super sensitive. Some studies have shown that the head, especially the underside, is extremely sensitive. The right tongue techniques can definitely get a man weak and out of control.


Licking or using your tongue to play with the head is a fantastic way to get your partner hard and ready for some deepthroat action.


Penis Shaft

 

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The shaft of the penis is basically the main body of the penis. This area is also quite sensitive due to its thin skin. 

The shaft however could need a bit more pressure to get the best stimulation. Gripping it with your hand in an “OK” hand sign and licking it sideways or gobbling it in your mouth can take your partner to outer space. 


Testes

 

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The testes or testicles are another section of the male sexual organ that can make for great head. Softly caressing the balls as you suck on the dick can add extra spice to oral sex. 


Some men even prefer their balls getting sucked. Please note though, sucking balls should be done gently so as to not hurt your partner. 

This does not mean don’t be passionate about it, just be cautious while you’re at it. Be at liberty to suck his nuts dry, as long as he is comfortable with the intensity of your sucking.


Blowjob Techniques To Make Him Moan & Groan


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Here are some techniques to give head that will make your partner lose their head.


Technique 1: Gently lick the tip of his penis

Use the top of your tongue to lick the head of his penis as gently as possible.

Another way to go about it is to also insert the whole tip of his penis in your mouth and softly suck on it.


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Technique 2: Use the Different Textures In Your Mouth


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The inside of the mouth has different textures some of which are: 

  • The roughness of the upper part of the tongue
  • The ridgy roof of the mouth
  • The smoothness of the inside of the cheeks

These various mouth textures can help enhance the pleasure the penis feels while in your mouth. 


Technique 3: Hands & mouth combo

 

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A collaboration of hands and mouth can produce a hit.

Firstly get the vibes just right, get into the mood with some foreplay and as things are getting hotter and hotter, it’s time to get on your knees and let your head blow his mind. 


Wrap your hands around the penis and slowly move in a back-and-forth motion as you lick the tip or head of the penis.

You can also cup your hand in front of your mouth and have his penis in your cupped hand, and suck him to pleasure island.


Tip: At some points, you can keep his penis in your mouth for a few seconds to let the warmth and wetness of your mouth arouse him even more. 


Technique 4: Play with the penis inside your mouth


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It’s not about just sucking until he cums. You can also use your hand to move his penis from side to side in your mouth, hitting it against the inside of your cheeks. 

While you’re at it, you could also swirl your tongue around the tip of his penis to add to the pleasure.

 

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While sucking his shaft, softly cupping his balls with your hand can raise the pleasure level. What’s more, if you even suck on his balls gently it can make him quiver. 


Tips & Precautions 


  • Know what works for your partner (everyone is different)
  • Remember to rinse or clean your mouth before giving a blowjob
  • Remember to wash the penis before getting a blowjob
  • Remember to start nice and slow 
  • Remember to keep it gentle when cupping or sucking the balls
  • Remember to communicate when uncomfortable 
  • Remember to use the different textures of your mouth
  • Remember to try different sucking techniques (be spontaneous)
  • Remember to enjoy!

Conclusion


Whether you’re on the giving or receiving end of the blowjob, remember to have an awesome time. It will do you good to remember that a good blowjob will depend on your partner's preferences, not everyone is the same.


Don’t be afraid to alternate between the different techniques like licking the tip of the penis, caressing the balls, playing with the penis in your mouth, and even gobbling up the whole thing and sucking the soul out of him.


Lastly, remember to communicate, start slow, be gentle, practice good hygiene, create the right vibes, and try out different things.